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Second, many women are not directly stimulated by intercourse alone. Together
the two of you may need to explore different ways of stimulating her besides
through intercourse alone. Since you are her first sexual partner, you need to
realize that she may not know what sexual activities are most pleasurable for
her yet. You are the lucky person that gets to help her figure this out! Perhaps
focusing on foreplay will increase her excitement level.
There are four phases of sexual response - excitement, plateau, orgasm, and
resolution.
Excitement is where the body first begins to respond to stimuli, this could
be a massage, kissing, touching, etc.
Plateau is the time from excitement to orgasm, orgasm is short and lasts only
a few moments, and resolution is the time after orgasm, when all body functions
return to normal.
The time for you and your girlfriend to concentrate on is the plateau phase.
Different people need different stimulation to reach orgasm, the key is finding
out what each person needs. A good way for your girlfriend to learn what
stimulates her is through touch - either masturbation or with your help. You can
find more masturbation
info here.
All of these activities can be enjoyed by both parties and can be just as fun
as intercourse!
Take the time to talk and then take the time to enjoy each other. For many women
the pleasure is not in the intercourse alone, it’s in the fun before the actual
intercourse!
Also you might reach the orgasm to early. It might happen, you are already at
the top, and she did not even start to clime up to the hill. You should hold
back your horses, take her to the top first and take your time after to reach
the top... How? You might want to check out the Ultimate Sex Guide
for more information. You will find there everything that you need to know about
love making.
I hope it helped a little,
Peter
My wife and I like swingers sex stories and thinking and talking about
swinging a lot. However she is NOT inclined to "open" our
marriage. She has said that she is worried that I might find "better" and
leave her, or, vice versa.
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