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Something you might not know is that not all women
experience orgasm at all, and even less during intercourse.
For a variety of reasons, many women do not masturbate. The
clitoris does not make its presence felt as does the penis,
and upon reaching sexual maturity, the female body does not
experience erections or wet dreams. A lot has been said
about the female orgasm. One thing of which you can be
certain is that a guy who knows a lot about getting his
partners off is a guy who will have his sexual partners
eagerly coming back for more. Things just work out this way
so why not try to make both parts happy?
Unlike most men, who find themselves excited when seeing an
attractive nude female body, very few women are not
triggered by seeing a nude male. And seeing a close-up of
genitals is very unlikely to excite any woman. They're just
different that way, both genetically and culturally. No
doubt that is why men spend so much time at strip clubs,
where strip shows for women are more of a novelty. This is
also why there are not more nude male mags for women.
Women need mental stimulation to achieve orgasm - especially
their first time. Every woman is different in what exactly
turns them on, but a lot of women also require a feeling of
connection with their partner.
Whether or not your partner has come before or not, it is
usually not as easy for women to experience an orgasm. It
takes an average of twenty minutes for a woman to reach
orgasm, and interruption in her mood can completely derail
this process. Sure, some girls can come in a few minutes,
but they are not the norm.
A lot of people ask the question "who is responsible for the
woman's orgasm?" Ultimately both
partners are probably responsible. Let's face it
- guys aren't built the same, and if women keep them
guessing about what to do, it may not get done right.
On the other hand, a lot of men seem to feel that sticking
their penis in their partner should be enough. The truth is
that it very rarely is enough, and the men that believe this
are usually guilty of willful ignorance.
Meet the clitoris
The primary trigger for most female orgasms is the clitoris,
a small nub of flesh outside and just to the front of the
vagina. In many intercourse positions, the clitoris is not
touched in any way, making orgasm literally impossible for
most women. For most women to come during intercourse, there
must be some contact with the clitoris. In most cases, this
can easily be achieved by the man's pubic bone.
Even easier, either the man or the woman can gently
masturbate the woman by lightly rapidly rubbing her clitoris
only after she is already excited. The main function of
foreplay is to get the partners excited and to allow the
female to lubricate. Many men who rush through foreplay
because they are anxious to fuck miss part of the point - it
takes a woman longer to become excited. If you routinely
rush your partners through foreplay, they will not be
excited, will very rarely if ever have orgasms with you, and
will not look forward to more sex with you with a sense of
anticipation.
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For women who are uncomfortable with masturbation, a
vibrator can be held on the clitoris. Also a stream of water
from a bathtub or hot tub can be a great way for a woman to
cum.
The tongues have it
Most women's favorite sexual activity is not intercourse, it
is cunnilingus - pussy eating. The softer, smooth surface of
the tongue is very well suited to the very sensitive
clitoris. Where fingers can irritate, your tongue is a
perfect tool to bring your partner to bliss and keep her
there.
If you want your partners to come back for more, remember to
slow down the foreplay so they're ready when you are, and
make sure that they are satisfied as well as you are...
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