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Pills are available to help, but I think they might do
more harm than good.
The first question that comes into any person’s mind
when talking about sex during pregnancy is: is this safe? The answer is: yes, of
course it’s safe. It’s perfectly normal to have sex during the months of
pregnancy, up until the water breaks. Of course, you should always check with a
doctor or a midwife in order to be absolutely certain that sex will have no
negative impact on the baby.
But as long as the pregnancy is normal, you won't hurt
the baby by making love, even with if you get on top. The thick mucus plug that
seals the cervix will guard against infection, while both the amniotic sac and
the strong muscles of the uterus will protect the baby. Though the baby may move
around a bit after orgasm, this is not because he may feel pain or because he
may know what’s happening. It is rather because of his mother’s pounding heart.
Also you can try to find new positions for sex, such as lying partly sideways,
side-by-side, from behind or having the woman on top. Use your imagination and
use some pillow here and there. If you can't find comfortable position, visit
the Ultimate Sex Guide. Although The Ultimate Sex Guide is written to help men, it helps to women as well, with their larger
number of sexual positions and love making techniques. All of their techniques, sex
positions, ideas come with DVD quality video tutorials which
ensures you are doing everything right.
Some women are afraid of orgasm because it can cause the
uterus to contract. In a normal pregnancy this should not be a concern. The
uterus contracts in the same manner as the Braxton-Hicks contractions, which are
a perfectly natural occurrence during pregnancy.
What actually makes or breaks sex during pregnancy is
how the future mother feels. Some women feel sexier and freer than ever,
especially since they are rid from the worries about conception and
contraception. Others are simply too tired or nauseated to think about sex,
mostly in the first trimester when vomiting, fatigue and tender breasts are
likely to get in the way. The increased flow of blood to the pelvic area is
known to cause engorgement of the genitals, which serves to heighten the
pleasure of sex for certain women and to make uncomfortable other women after
intercourse.
However you should not have sex with new partner. A person whose sexual history is unknown to
you may have a sexually transmitted disease. If you become infected, the disease may be transmitted to your baby,
with potentially dangerous consequences.
One good rule of the thumb is to use your imagination
and try to solve all problems with a touch of humor.
I hope it helped.
Greetings,
Peter
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