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Dear Sir:

I am has been married for 18 years to my first love. I am a 48 years old man and my wife is 42. She is fit and she looks no more than 35 years old. I know that many men are attracted to her and just to know this make me proud.

The problem? We do not have sex. My wife and I have not been intimate in a year or maybe even more, and before that, we had sex about few times a year. And it is me not her... I'm an average looking, healthy guy, but a little getting overweight, however I am not fat at all. I know there are men out there who would sleep with my wife with out any hesitation.

When I think about this, it makes me realize that, we should make love more often. Also one day I was looking for a old document and found a box of sex toys, so definitely my wife misses something in her life. I know we should have our intimate moments every now and then, but somehow I just can't get into it. And no I am not gay!

Part of my mind thinks many relationships are like this, after 18 years of marriage, but when I found those toys, I wasn't sure. Today she plays with the toys, tomorrow she might sleep with someone. I believe this is normal, but I am not sure anymore. Please help me, what should I do?

Just a 48 year old man

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Dear 48 years old man;

This is a first email that I got from a man, who complains about the lack of his own sex drive. Men usually complain their wife or spouse's sex drive.

You have an attractive wife and you have not been intimate with her over a year. It was so long ago, you can not even remember when it did happen. Your situation is everything but normal.

A healthy spousal relationship involves a satisfying sexual relationship. The frequency depends upon the couple's needs, but it should happen more often then once a year. Marital sex is not something like X-mas present...

Only one thing is right in your email, if you will not do something, she will sleep around, I can guarantee this.

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You wrote that, you are healthy. A healthy 48 year old man with an attractive wife can't live with out any kind of sex. Definitely something is wrong with you and you should find out what it is.

As men get older, their sex drive might get weaker. This should not be a problem for a 48 old healthy man, you are not old man yet. In your case there's more at play here than simply getting older.

So, find out why you're just not up for it like you used to be in your 20's. There are many factors that could be to blame, both physical and emotional. Most cases of low libido are mental rather than physical. Stress is the number one cause behind a low libido - while sex is a great way to get your mind off of things, you've got to be ready for it in the first place. Any other negative feelings, like guilt or depression, can also be at work. Once you've exhausted all of those possibilities and you've determined that your dip in sexual desire isn't emotional, then it's on to consider physical causes.

A profound decrease in testosterone may be to blame. As men age, they lose 10% of testosterone a decade. Many men lose more than this, resulting in a male form of menopause. Millions of men are going through this right now without even realizing it. They're so convinced that they're just experiencing growing older. But feeling tired and out of sorts is not necessarily a universal experience when you're in your forties or fifties. There are men out there who are still in great shape through their golden years - then why should you twenty years younger feel and live like an old man? Why should your attractive wife live with out sexual intercourse. Sure sex toys are made for have fun with them, but her sexual life should not based on sex toys only.

There are so many other ways that your body is affected by a dip in testosterone, such as a decrease in bone density, an increase in body fat. You wrote, that you are getting overweight.

Your marital sex life should not stop because you are 48 and a little overweight, so get yourself in order and feel like you did in your late twenties. There most to be something wrong with your testosterone level. You should have enough power to change your body around, by engaging in regular exercise and healthy eating. Men going through a mid-life crisis has become a cliché, but we're hoping that you take your middle years as an opportunity to take care of yourself. Healthy eating a regular exercise will boost your libido level.

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If I were you I would see my doctor and I have my testosterone levels checked. If everything is OK physically, you need to understand that, your inactive sexual live, the lack of intimacy is undermining your marriage. You should do something, before it too late!

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I hope it helped a bit.

Peter,

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