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Dear Sir:
My husband and I have been married for 10 years. If sex doesn't count, things are pretty good. We have a beautiful child, good jobs and we live in a nice house. We never fight except about one thing — sex.
Before we married, we were all over each other. Even made out in his car... But ever since I said "Yes, I do," I don't feel do him... I just don't have any interest in sex. He has to push me to make love, but if he gets me to an orgasm, it will be really great. We have intercourse two - three times a week. I try never turn him down, but it is getting harder. For example yesterday we had a really big fight about it.
My husband is wonderful man, and I love him very much. No any women can ask for better man. Why can't I be sexually attracted to him as I used to be?
He's a good-looking guy, and an exceptionally good lover. I just not horny anymore. I can live with or without sex, but my hubby can't. Sometimes I just want to send him to find someone to fulfill his sexual needs. And it is even worse since our child was born. I visited my doctor and he put me on an anti-depressant that doesn't suppress sexual desire. It worked great at first, but few weeks past by and those pills don't do anything anymore. My sexual desire started to go back to the way where it was before I took those anti-depressant pills.
We were thinking I am to tired that is why I do not want to have sex. My husband helped and still helps me a lot around the house and with the
baby, so I can't be that tired. I am a healthy 32 year old woman, so I don't think it's a physical problem.
I'm afraid if things do not change in the family bed, my hubby will walk out one day for good. How can I increase my libido? How can I make him happy?
Please help.
Just a wife
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