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I'm in my late twenties  and my girlfriend is 25 years old. We have been dating more than 5 years now. At first things wasn't serious, but the last 3 years we are planning our future together... But one thing already worries me. 

She is completely frigid about intercourse. Don't even want to talk about it. I love her, and I know she loves me and being loved is beautiful, but I need her body too. Of course we are kissing and into each other, but as I get into it more, she gets colder and colder.

I tried everything, we watched porno movies together. She doesn't mind to "give me hand job" but she doesn't even moans. I tried to perform oral sex on her, she did not let me down there. She is beautiful, I saw her naked many - many times, she have nothing to shame about her body.

In fact I never touched her vagina directly, she never let my hand under her  panties. I had more than few girls in my life and I could feel their "pussy juice" true on their underwear, but I never felt hers.

My question is, what do I do?  How can I make out with her? What can be wrong? Don't tell me she might have some religious issues, because she is not religious and she does not come from a religious family. I can't live with out intercourse any longer. Should  I leave her or is there some idea that help me make out with her?

Thanks,

Joe

Hello Joe,

I don't know what can be wrong, maybe nothing.... Maybe she is one of the few remaining women who believe, "No sex until marriage".  Did you try to talk about this with her? Is she a virgin? Maybe you just have to married her, however in these days no any man will married any women, in the hope they will be competitive sexually.

Sex is very important part of any spousal relationship. With out great sex a relationship wont last long. You definitely should find out what is wrong with her, before you married her.

What can be wrong?

Many things, for example some mental barrier from  bad sexual experiences from her  previous relationship. In this case consulting service might help.

Or she does have serious sex drive - libido or testosterone related issues.

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She never gets exited, she never gets wet, she does not moan and her nipples does not get erected. Her testosterone level might not be abnormal. Yes, you red it right, women can have testosterone related problems too.  Women should have low levels of testosterone. Testosterone is a  "male hormone," but testosterone patch can boost women's erotic mood and sexual health. This patch available with with prescription only, and to get it have to have  testosterone test done.

Can you talk her into? Never know if you don't try.

There are other things that you can try.

Tribulus Terrestris is a natural libido booster tropical fruit. This fruit  have some benefits for men and women too, who are experiencing a decline in libido. This fruit has been use since the times of ancient Greece to increase sex hormones.  Studies using the extract, have found it to be effective as a treatment for female infertility, and low libido in both, men and women.

It became widely know again, after the Olympic. The medal wining Bulgarian Olympic team used it as a performance enhancer, because it boost the testosterone level. The explanation for their success is: Higher levels of testosterone has numerous performance enhancing benefits. 

However  with out doctor's monitor, testosterone therapy is a risky thing to do. There is no risk to eat that fruit, but where can you get it? You can have the extract, that made from it, but that extract comes with the side effects, so that is getting risky.   Side effects for women are:  risk of developing heart disease, risk of baldness, body fluid retention, enlarged breast, and aggravated sleep apnea.

The best solution would be to work with a doctor to figure it out how can you put her sex life in the middle of the normal range. This can pricey.

If I were you I would try herbal libido booster first. There are pill and gel created for women only, both type 100% natural and they are very affordable. In fact they comes with money back guarantee.  Those female libido enhancers do not have side effects at all, and they increase libido with out any risk in a short period of time.  However she have to take the pill or have to apply the jelly on her genital. Can you talk her in to do so?

You and she have to decide what you want to do with your future and which way you will go. You have to talk with her and decide on which way is the best for you, your sex life and which way is the best for you finances.

Visit HerSolution Gel's website or HerSoultion Pills' website for more.

I hope it helped a bit.

Peter,

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