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Foreplay is a critical and crucial part of the whole lovemaking experience.
It is simply defined as everything that comes before actual intercourse. A couple
needs foreplay to spice up their sex life, get fully aroused and heighten
pleasure.
Men are from Mars…
Sometimes men need prolonged foreplay to get an erection. Foreplay for men is
relatively simple and easy. The direct touching of the genitals usually does the
trick. But for those women, who want to tantalize their men into submission
remember these five foreplay-for-him maneuvers.
1. Visuals play a vital role, so sexy lingerie would be a nice touch but giving
him an unadulterated view of your body will be the hottest gift. Reinforce this
view with some steamy moves guaranteed to thrill, like giving him a strip tease.
2. Let your parted lips roam his body, like his stomach or chest, then slowly
exhale. The rush of hot air will change the temperature in his skin and heighten
his arousal.
3. Seize control and show your animal instinct. You’ll be surprise to know that
men crave seduction as much as a woman and being aggressive is a sign of lust
and that you’re as into it as he is.
4. Excite them with touch. Guys are especially touchy when they are between the
sheets. Giving him butt massages and long but gentle scratches up and down their
back will turn your fella right on.
5. Do what ever it is you are doing to bring him to the brink. Then ease up, not
necessarily stopping, but put off the good thing for a while. Do this a few
times until he screams “enough already.”
Women are from Venus…
Women need foreplay to become properly lubricated. For women foreplay is a bit
more complicated. Direct genital touching is the last place you should go,
consider every where else on her body as a good place to touch, massage and kiss
before you go there. Letting her know that she is wanted for more than sex, that
she is cared about as a woman, is what really turns her on. Here is a five step
plan to help her get ready.
1. Nothing is more important to a woman than knowing that you have a connection.
It can be as simple as telling her that you were thinking about her, and missed
her, nothing over-the-top, just honest and caring conversation.
2. Remember that being intimate does not have to mean being sexual. Once in a
while ask her probing questions and give her more than one-word replies when she
asks you the same. Confide in her, and let her know that you appreciate her
listening.
3. Establish physical contact without being sexual, like holding her hand,
giving her massages, do anything to simply make contact without mauling her.
4. Kissing, for women, is an incredible turn on. You have to remember that women
sees kissing as another form of emotional intimacy so do not go to a lot of
tongue action right away. It will be good to start with a brief caressing of
lips and pay attention to whether or not she’s digging it. If she is, continue
from there with a bit more passion but always be aware of whether she is
reciprocating. A great trick is to imitate her kissing style, as it’s surely a
sign of what she likes!
5. Remember that from kissing her until the “heavy petting” stage, there should
be some interval in between. The duration of the kiss will depend on how hot and
bothered you both get. The longer and slower you kiss her, the more experienced
you’ll seem, and the she’ll be excited.
There is no time limit on foreplay, usually the longer it takes the more
sensitized your skin becomes and sends your senses to haywire that leads to
explosive orgasm. The key is to start intercourse when both partners are fully
aroused and having a hard time controlling their desires. Remember that
initiating sex, breaking routine, exploration, new places, new positions,
letting him/her know that he/she is wanted sexually is what turns your partner
on.
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