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Dear Mr. Peter,

I have been married three months now... I know 3 months is not a long time and I already have some concerns about our marital sex life. We are into each other very much and we have intercourse daily, but I am really concerned about giving my wife an orgasm regularly.

Because of my concern I try to hold my ejaculation as long as possible. Sometimes I can keep up to maximum of 10 minutes, but when I m done, my wife is just halfway.

Please guide me with some tips or advice how can I delay my orgasm, how can I last longer. How can I keep my erection longer? I have heard that some women need 20-25 minutes hard core sex to have an orgasm. .

Can you help me?

Thanks, Vivek

 

Hello Vivek,

If you can turn your marital sex life into a great sex life, then your wife will have an orgasm regularly..

So what is a great sex?

Great sex doesn't start in the bedroom, but when things get serious, (you do not have to be in the bedromm) the erotic play should last at least an hour. You will know if you had great sex, because great sex will give you and your wife an orgasm in both of your bodies as well as in both of your minds too.

You wrote that, during intercourse you can manage to keep your erection up to 10 minutes. 10 minutes intercourse is enough for many ladies, but not for everyone. Your wife should be very excited, before you penetrate her, but you should know that, only a small number of women orgasm from intercourse alone.

There is G-spot orgasm, clitoral orgasm, orgasm from oral sex or the combination of all. Sex is a very complicated erotic activity and it takes time to build up the erotic tension in your wife body.

How can you give her an orgasm?

I assume you have proper fore play, so I do not talk about it how to get her ready to have the greatest orgasm in her lifetime. Instead I am getting in the middle of the action, which is the actual intercourse.

If you can last 10 minutes long and she is not even close to have an orgasm, then you have to delay yours. Actually you do not necessarily have to delay your orgasm, you just have to control your ejaculation.

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The orgasm and ejaculation are not the same.

You can have an orgasm with out ejaculation, but if you ejaculate, then you will lose your erection, at least a few minutes and that is enough to turn her off.

There are different methods, to stopping ejaculation to delay male orgasm.

For example you can strengthen your PC muscle with Kegel exercise. If your PC muscle is strong, you can control, you can timing your ejaculation.

The other one is to press (by your wife) your pleasure point, which is between your testicles and your anus. If she push this point hard, it will delay or stop your ejaculation. There are many more techniques to last longer, however at first you have to learn where is your no return point and you have to stop before you reach that point. You can find your no return point by masturbation.

If you want to make her sex life great, first you have to learn your body and have to learn to control your excitement. The simplest way to do this - via masturbation. Just masturbate and stop before you ejaculate than start again, and soon you will be able to control yourself.

When you can control yourself, then you have to learn your wife's body and then great sex will come. Also there are sex positions that helps for males to keep their erection bigger and harder longer and there are love making techniques that help for males to give orgasm for any women. You can check them out here.

If nothing help, there are natural herbal supplements, that will give you all night staying power. If you try this penis enhancement supplement, you going to make your wife speechless.

Hope it helped,

Peter 

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