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My wife and I like swingers sex stories and thinking and talking about
swinging a lot. However she is NOT inclined to "open" our
marriage. She has said that she is worried that I might find "better" and
leave her, or, vice versa.
There is only one thing I would
request of you. Almost all of sex stories on the net, in any and every
site or collection I have seen, fails to describe the sensations and
feelings the lady feels upon insertion and or coitus within her pelvis or
vagina.
Do you know of any author or authoress that is "published" that
goes into such detail? Upon asking my wife she says that "I just
feel full," and cannot be convinced to relate more details to me. It makes
me feel as though I am too small to fulfill her needs, though she insists
otherwise. I am, shamefully, very modest in penile size at 5
inches, and about one inch thick. But I have this burning curiosity
regarding this subject.
Thank You your help.
Thanks for the email. We love to hear from your
readers. It makes me feel like we are actually providing a
service to all of you guys out there.
Please don't consider me too deviant. I had to smile at the last part of your
note. I believe size is one thing the technique is the other thing that counts in love
making. If you are smaller or bigger, either way you should know what to do with your penis. If your
penis is big enough to take her breath a way in sex, you still should know how
to use it. Size is not everything. However I can not give "first handed"
answer, because as a male I can't explain from experience the differences,
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However I know a lady very well and I asked her help. Her name is Joan. She had
have lot of men in her life. Please read her answer and if it isn't enough, you
can contact her by sending a email to JJJ3313260 [ @ ] aol.com (with out space and the [ ] keyboard characters).
Please read her answer at next.
Over the years in my role I have received so many penis size related question,
from guys expressing concern about their less-than-gigantic cock, and their
ability to give pleasure to a woman. Let me share some biological facts with
you. A woman's pussy IS NOT a "space" or "cavity" that is only "filled" when a
cock is large. Rather, it is a "potential space or cavity," one that has no
extra space until something is inserted. It can pleasantly accommodate a simple
finger, and yet during child birth can open large enough to allow passage of an
entire baby's head and body. In other words, it is HIGHLY elastic! Sure, when a
larger cock is playing in there, the vagina expands and exposes more nerve
endings that could be stimulated to bring her lot of pleasure. |
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Also the experience of accommodating that larger cock can be a mental
stimulation to her, thus making it easier for her to reach pleasure-filled
orgasms. So definitely the size is count, but being well endowed is not enough.
Much of a woman's pleasure comes from stimulation of her clit
(no extra large cock needed here), and pressure against her pubs by a man who is
giving her an energetic "screw" (no extra large cock needed here either). Oral
stimulation of her pussy, clit, nipples, breasts and other sensitive parts
of her body also often are an important part of her pleasure. The man need to
know what to do with her body! It has been said that the brain is the body's
best sex organ and the saying is RIGHT! Much of a woman's sexual stimulation
begins in the brain... from reading erotica with her lover, from erotic talk
with her lover, from the environment where they are making love, from sharing
special erotic activities, etc.
Many women think about the potential
pleasures of feeling "full" from having an extra long or thick cock within
them. Many women thoroughly enjoy such variations occasionally
(one of the reason couples often start to swing). However, many woman actually CAN'T
accommodate an extra long
cock. A fair number of women simply have vaginas which are too shallow to
accommodate excess length. In those cases, the guy with extra long cocks
are as they say "out of luck."
Generally a woman can accommodate a cock that is somewhat longer than the depth of their pussy,
because even when fully erect, the human male cock tends to be spongy, and compresses somewhat against the
firm back wall of a lady's vagina. If the probing cock is not too long or
too "bony," we gals often enjoy the feeling of having that cock "beat"
against the back walls of our pussies.
I enjoy that occasionally, but, even I have had to turn down a few guys whose cock was too long for my
comfort. In my case, if that long cock is not too thick, I invite the guy
to enter me anal-y. Personally, I enjoy anal sex. I can take a cock
MUCH deeper into that nether hole, and I enjoy the feeling!
So your question is what does a pussy feel like when it is being entered, probed and "filled"
with an large cock?
Well, it obviously feels good. That "good" feeling comes from the friction
of the cock rubbing within me. If I am too dry, the friction can cause
discomfort rather than pleasure. If my pussy is too well lubricated, the friction is often reduced.
In those cases, the actual intercourse can be less enjoyable, but that is often overcome by my mental
stimulation knowing how turned-on I am, because I being screwed by a big cock.
If that cock is small that
friction can come from a probing tongue, a probing finger, a small or a
large dildo.
A guy needs to be sensitive to what the lady is feeling. Does she want slow, leisurely screwing so the nerve endings
are repeatedly caressed within her body until her orgasm is finally
released, or does she want to be screwed hard so that the nerve endings
in her pubs and clit are aggressively invigorated until they cry out for
release through an orgasm. I have intimately enjoyed more than several different cocks within my pussy. So, I guess I am speaking
from experience. A cock of ANY size can produce pleasure in my body, if
the man who owns it is truly alert to what turns me on, and at what level
of turn-on my body is at on any given moment. On more than one
occasion, I have been leisurely enjoying the feel of a cock within me, only
to have the man unexpectedly lean forward and give one of my nipples a firm
but gentle nibble. That has often sent me over the edge.
Stop worrying about the size of your cock. If it really does bothering you, you
can try to do something about it, but if it is big enough for your wife I
wouldn't bother. You should focus more on the size of your desire to make your
wife happy. Talk with her. Learn what gives her special pleasure, what seems to
enhance her femininity. If you are unable to give
her that special pleasure educate yourself. Visit sexologist (face to face) or visit
Sex Guide related
websites and learn it how to make any women cum!
And here at the end, yes the size is count but the size is not everything. Any
man can please any women with 6.5 - 7.5 inches in length and 5.5 - 6.5 inches in girth
size cock. Hewer the man who owns it should have excellent
technique.
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